I was browsing fedi for some inspiration because I plan to add a post on my website about the things I posted on here so far. And then I found the attached image which exemplifies exactly what I meant.
This comic basically implies that being a creature is simply a matter of your mind, and I don't identify with this idea at all. To me, being a dragon (or whatever animal it may be in the future) means existing as one, in body and mind, with no difference from other members of the same species.
What exactly am I supposed to get from a condescending "oh, but you are, honey"? I'd still have my human body and human mind, thinking human thoughts and doing human things. I very much am not a dragon.
"But Volpeon, it's more about one's identity" — yeah, and my identity doesn't work this way. I don't get anything positive out of building abstractions just so I can say "I am a dragon". Those words and concepts don't change anything meaningful about my reality, where I clearly am not a dragon.